Aku ingin lari dari takdir ini

Its raining outside.

And inside.

Waiting for RAINBOW.

Ya, aku mahu lari dari takdir ini kepada takdir yang lain. Aku mahu berusaha untuk mengubah dan berubah. kerana masa kian singkat. Terlalu singkat untukku.

Dan moga,

Senyuman itu,

Moga kekal bila ujian mendatang.

I wonder if you can see my smile behind the veil :)

I wonder if you feel your own smile~

 Qawiy ya diri!

Zerrissen T_T

The believer who mingles with people and is patient with their annoyance, earns more reward than the believer who does not mingle with people and does not observe patience with their annoyance

Lelah

Penat

Tapi gagah 

mengutip sisa 

alasaan yang masih berbaki.

Tapi masih bingung

sepertimana  hari-hari semalam.

Cerita yang dikarang Ilahi.

Ilahi juga yang Maha Mengetahui.

Terus memberi dan memberi.

Tanpa meletakkan harapan pada insan yang lemah.

Moga Allah redha.

Moga lapang dada.

Moga ada jalan nya.

Pasti.

CCFM 2052K: Should a husband doing daily housework?

First of all, I  need to tell uolls that this is my assignment for parenting. Parenting ni adalah kelas yang wajib diambil most of the student at this main campus of uia la (except for student with  tahfiz program). And and assignment ni tak sama tajuk dengan other group rasanya. Just to inform. Jadi nya, this is an opinion, yang akan mengandungi beberapa kelemahan. hehe. Kbai

Should a husband doing daily housework?

            It is most appropriate to start by mentioning how our dearest Rasulullah (PBUH) who was the noblest and fountain head of decent character treated wife. He would sew his own torn clothes, repair his shoes and do whatever other workmen do in in their houses. This hadith reported by Imam Ahmad and was said by his wife Aishah, when she was asked about what Rasulullah (PBUH) used to do at home.

            According to what Rasulullah (PBUH) had shown us, it is understood that a husband should doing daily housework even he is working. Nowadays, women also well-educated and get career on her own. Thus, it is not suitable for men to give his career as a reason to not doing daily housework and think this is beneath them. Rasulullah (PBUH) also a diligent man who actively spread his preach but he manages to do housework and also play with his children.

            The worthiest condition of a marriage is time to be spent together and this may achieve by having a husband doing a daily housework. A quality time between a spouse create mutual relationship that bring happiness long after. They should help each other and be tolerance in spite of hectic days. In Quran, surah Al-Ma’dah, verse number two, Allah command to His believing servants to assist one another to do good deeds and to avoid sins.

This is a very worrying trend that occurs nowadays in our country where an average of three cases per hour of divorce among Muslim couples. According to the study, one of the reasons that lead to divorce is that there is no understanding between the partners in the sense that they do not really understand what their roles are exactly when they get married. While man mostly thinks that housework is not their duty at all while the wife thinks otherwise. To conclude it is best to end this with a hadith from Rasulullah, “the best of man are those who are best to their wives” (Narrated by Abu Hurairah).

           

My Bulatan GUmbiRa : Membina Generasi Pemuda Rabbani :)

Dengan Nama Allah Yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang

Definisi : 
Rasa bertuhan

Point 1 : Niat kerana Allah

"Katakanlah: Sesungguhnya sembahyangku, ibadatku, hidupku dan matiku untuk Allah, Tuhan sekalian Alam".
[Surah Al-An'am :162]

"Kehidupan dunia ini (jika dinilaikan dengan kehidupan akhirat) tidak lain hanyalah ibarat hiburan dan permainan, dan sesungguhnya negeri akhirat itu ialah kehidupan yang sebenar-benarnya, sekiranya mereka mengetahui."

 (Surat CintaNya al-Ankabut , ayat 64)

Harap maklum. Post kali ni hanyalah edit dari draft yg setahun lalu. Point mau 10. Tapi tulis satu masuk draft and distracted buat post lain.. Hahaha. Usrah ketika waktu di asasi PJ.
I really miss the old US. Kita2 yg dulu :)
I miss PJ so much. 
Rindu tarbiyah dedulu.....
Dah tuaa T_T

Yang Masih

"Ketika CINTA DUNIA memasuki hati, takut akan akhirat akan keluar darinya. Berhati-hatilah dengan godaan dunia, kerana tidak seorang hamba pun yang membuka sebuah pintu dunia ini, tanpa tertutupnya beberapa pintu akhirat baginya"

(Hasan al-Basri)

Yang Masih Disini,

takut memikirkannya,

Yang Masih Disini,

meraguinya,

Yang Masih Disini,

terlalu berhati-berhati,

Yang Masih Disini,

lari dari bayangnya,

Yang Masih Disini,

menepis segalanya,

Yang Masih Disini,

mengharapkan cinta hakiki :)

Mohon belajar dan beramal :)

One Word : Phobia

Bismillahirrahmanirahim. 

Seriously, I dont write here for a very long time kan?

I miss you beloog :P

Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah. Gonna finish my first year in this huge IIUM Kuantan. Huge but empty. Not much in here. Seriously. So, first year as biomedical student aka future scientist (Actually, its a big field to discover) almost every week will busy with lab report, assignment and etc. Usrah and all sort that 'not academic related' is a way to gain something for my soul. Yeah, exactly. I learn a lot , lotsss~this one year. Struggle, striving  with no one but myself. Peoples give me high expectations. Alhamdulillah. Its not because I am that good but it is because Allah covered my sins. Allahurobbi. But still you peoples, your high expectation does not change me into an angel as I am still human.

"kadang,
penat nak percaya orang,
kadang,
penat nak sayang orang.
sebab,
penat pujuk hati supaya jadi kuat."

Now, I Admit.

in the name of god, most gracious, most merciful.

Assalamualaikum :) Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah. Bagai angin masa itu berlalu. Pejam celik pejam celik. I have finished my first sem in first year. The exam ended. Hectic days. Its was 2014 guys~ Satu sem,dalam lima bulan.. Dan lima bulan itu juga tak melihat kedua muka ibubapa yang disayangi face to face. Akhirnya, sudah di sini :) Penang manis penang. Alhamdulillah. Masyaallah. Gembira sangat. Sudah rabiul awwal. Bulan maulid nya baginda rasulullah. Lagi rasa gembira sangat. Sollu ala nabi~ Allahumaa solli ala Muhammad.

Not officially 21.. since not yet october, but then need to assume like that. Ehem,ehem. Sebenarnya tersangat rindu untuk menulis. Tapi saat nak menaip sahaja, macam-macam perasaan berbaur. Kuantan. U make me think things a lot. New and old things. But still, I am here. And feel the emptiness. *numb*

"berehat dari menulis, saat hati penuh luka.bimbang apa yang ditulis cuma mencambah lebih banyak luka.dan khuatir, apa yang ditulis menjadi hal sia-sia."

-quoted-

Now, I admit I had changed.  I am changing. Do change me if need. I've talk enough. Time to be silent. :)

ISFP personality :)

Bismillah. Alhamdulillah thumma Alhamdulillah. Final exam will approach us so soooon~
And home will be mine. Hewhewhew. A sem going to be a memory.
Satu sem not going home. First time kott.
Basically, this sem I registered for 8 subjects including the tilawah and study circle. And the most interesting subject to me always be psychology. Actually, I wanna take human science at first but pure science was my family choice. So,naaah. Proceed for the allied and now degree in Biomedical Sc. Insyaallah, later will take Psychology perhaps. But psychology class held at 630 pm until Isya..  Fall asleep often.. hee.. Ok. Sebenarnye nak kongsi satu link for a psychology test. Happy trying :)
These were my result!~
#spontaneous
#love of freedom
#artistic, independent approach
#very goal-driven
Klik sini :D jom test!

“You have to put yourself in environments and do certain actions where your iman will increase. There’s no neutrality in iman–you have to always put positive energy in or your iman will decrease. Your vehicle isn’t going to move unless you press the gas. Your nafs is dragging you down. Your have to put your heart in particular conditions to be able to receive the rain–the mercy.” -Shaykh Yahya Rhodus

A word: Speechless

Really pretend to be strong now. Pretending as I dont really care. Smiling ;)

Silent when drag by problem. I am speechless.

I hope that you know what behind my smile.

But you are not.

This is the middle.

Are we going to fear it.

I am speechless now.

Totally speechless.

21.11.1957

Eid milad ummi. I miss you soooo much :)

Apa Perkembangan sekarang??

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.

 Hmm.Feel like a long time not writing anything here. I had created a hypothesis actually. If I dont write any entry or status in fb ke, I actually dont read enough book. I mean books besides the anatomy or the chemistry book. Alhamdulillah, almost three months in Kuantan. In the garden of knowledge despite of the hestic day, I live my own life I thought. Alone. Often. In the library. Carrel room specifically. Eh, wait! ALONE? So where is Allah? No. Not alone :)

Last week, I had the chance to meet my friends in Gombak as I go to al-attas's saturday lecture. I cant describe how happy I am. Hew hew >.< That Sunday morning we gather senior & junior and taaruf. Ok. Thats the point. "Apa perkembangan sekarang" Well, my senior ada yg dah kahwin. Bro Najib. haha. And one I think getting engaged. Else, busy with architecture projects and English classes. Me? I really do lot in Kuantan I think. Knowing many new peoples. And definitely new 'head'. Perangai macam-macam. Haha. New roomates that really encourage me to get married very soon~ Perhaps they want to choose "who" for me too. Erkk.. ( I said to Mira, I dont care, whoever he is, dont approach me, approach my wali. Insyaallah i will give a minute to think.Saying is easy akteli-.-) New classmates~ Colourfull~ Owh, back to Gombak. Aina and me going out with the Gombak-ians at Wangsa Maju. I dont know. What feeling I had that time. I am happy but I felt guilty too. I dont wanna mention here.

And time to back to Kuantan come. Really going to miss them again. The ticket state the bus will depart at 8.30 pm. The only bus available that day. And guess what, sudah menyusahkan someone to "delivery free" ke Greenwood and accompanied us until 9.00 pm..Really need too akteli walaupon dah beberapa kali suruh dia pulang. Greenwood is not a best location to wait for busses at the night tau.  The bus late. Janji Melayu perhaps? Btw, Thankyou you youu. END. tak tahu nak naip ape dah~merapu je.

We only love the beginning of things. We hate the middle, and fear the end.

Rasulullah shallallahu'alaihi wa sallam bersabda:

"Sesungguhnya orang-orang yang saling mencintai, kamar-kamarnya di SYURGA nanti terlihat seperti BINTANG yang muncul dari timur atau bintang barat yang berpijar. Lalu ada yang bertanya, "siapa mereka itu?", "mereka itu adalah orang-orang yang mencintai kerana Allah 'Azzawajalla." (HR. Ahmad)

:) Strive for final exam~